You are not allowed to text her!

I know you want to text her. Yes, her, the one you thought about as soon as you read the headline.

You think about doing it all the time. You think about getting drunk just to use it as an excuse to contact her. But there is a reason you are not speaking right now.

You want to call and see how she is doing. You want to know she is hurting as badly as you are right now. She is not. She is perfectly content with the damage that she did to you. If she had any sort of regrets, wouldn’t she have called you already? She knows you are hurting right now, that is exactly how she wants it.

That is how a narcissist works. She knows you are reading this article thinking about her right now. She knows you are still thinking about her; she feeds off your misery. She knows she still has that power over you. She knows if she texted you right now asking you to come over, you would without hesitation. Do not give her the satisfaction of being right—you are better than that.

You are better than her lies and her manipulation. You are better than being her puppet. With the love you have to give, you deserve the flowers, you deserve date nights, you deserve goodnight kisses and someone who pictures their entire life from then on with you. There are girls waiting to give that to you.

As much as it hurts to hear, she is your past now. She was nothing but a guest who distracted you. Now it’s time to get back to the main story—it’s time to get back to you. Not the old you—the you that existed before she is gone. It’s time to get to know the new you. You know so much more now. You know how it feels for a heart to break, but you also know how much love you are capable of giving. Do not deprive the world of this guy. It’s safe to come out now—we want to meet you.